Shouldn’t personality be the first thing we become attracted to? Obviously when you first meet a prospective partner their appearance is the first thing you see before you get to know them. Your ideal partner could be out there somewhere waiting, possibly plain looking and lacking in ripped muscles/or a generous chest with curves in all the right places but may have the ability to fulfill your every desire and yet you will never meet them because you are too busy chasing after the attractive people.
When looking for your significant other maybe you should go on a blind date, where actual blindfolds are used like on those television shows where you could get to know them without appearance getting in the way. You may find afterwards that they are not the most dazzling person in the universe but does that really matter?
I admit that my head has been turned a few times but if anything, before I even met my husband I always found myself intimidated by drop dead gorgeous guys and although they are very nice to look at I would shy away from them.
I’m pretty sure the animal kingdom don’t decide on their mates by judging how shiny their fur is or how broad/lean their bodies are 🙂 This post was inspired by the cute looking guy that walked passed my car earlier 🙂 🙂