Would you stay together for the kids sake? It is an admiral thing to do but is it right? No one wants their kids to grow up in a broken home. You want to show them a stable environment and often kids get teased or looked down upon for being raised by just one parent. Some may stay together because they don’t want to put the kids through access either because they don’t want to have to give them over for the weekend, Christmas etc or simply because they don’t want to put their kids through that situation at all. It’s hard when a relationship breaks down and there are kids involved. I suppose it boils down to whether you want to live your life miserable with someone you no longer love, being held back from a life you could be enjoying. Of course if you’re constantly arguing and the atmosphere is tense then you’re not being fair to the kids anyway regardless of your sacrifice. The same applies to when you get pregnant and it wasn’t planned. People praise the man for standing by the woman even though he never intended to have a relationship with her but again is this right? Morally yes and it could even prove to be a success after all they were attracted to each other to begin with but more often than not it turns bitter with either one or both parties feeling trapped. Each individual is different but it is a tough decision to make.