Have you ever felt used? You bend over backwards for a person but it just isn’t enough. You don’t expect undying gratitude for the things you do for them but a little respect goes a long way. It seems the more you give, the more they expect until they become almost spiteful with their requests. You only hear from them if they have a problem or they need you to do something and they only visit if they have money or some other item waiting for them. You’re the last person they would see for a social call unless there is no other person available or a stop gap until there is. It’s hard when you love someone like this. If it were a friend or even an acquaintance you wouldn’t allow them to treat you this way.